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Sisterhood



Went to Pare was my first experience far away from my house, my family and met strange people. It was not easy untill I met them in our dormitory. We was in the same room, so I call them my roommates but in the end of period I call them my sisters. Four beautiful and gorgeous girls, Aul, Rizki, Isgi and Gisti. Let me told you about my first impression when I saw and met them, one by one.

First, Aul. Her complete name is Auliya Fathamsyah. She is from Balikpapan, East Borneo. Now, she is in her last semester in Communication major in Mulawarman University. She was the first girl I met before others.
Auliya
We met in Global English office when we re-registered at sunday, 22nd January 2017. When I saw her, I though she is arrogant, bossy, and other bad attitudes (I still remember the way you walk and talk, It's so arrogant). At the time, I though that I couldn't made a good relationship with people like her. Even when I asked her about her hometown and education, she answer it without smile. OMG, I don't like her. And you know what? Aul brought the biggest suitcase I ever seen. Very big blue suitcase. And I'm sure, that suitcase fit to her if she want to sleep in it (just kidding :D). From her style, I knew that she is "Anak Gahol Masa Kini (AGMK)".

Second, Rizki Nur Amalia but I call her Rizki or Kii.
Rizki
Rizki from Tenggarong, East Borneo. She is also in last semester in communication major in Mulawarman Universitas. I met her after Aul. Same with Aul, her style made me labeled her as AGMK. Rizki was indifferent people, more than Aul. She just answered yes or no without smile too. At that time I though, that was my first time in Pare and I had 2 people that I didn't like. Its was not good start.

Third is Isgi. Isgi Mahanani from Tanjung Pinang,
Kepulauan Riau.
Isgi
Honestly,  first time I saw her I though that she is one of Cici-cici who sell mobile phone in Hi-tech mall. I though she is Chinese and I wrong. She is Javanese. We are in the same old. First time I met her in our room, she ate fried noodles with her friends from another room and didn't pay attention to new comers. I though, it would be the worse time in my life because I met, not just one but three, unkind people. How pity I am.


 The last, the youngest girl is Maulida Agisti Predioni from Garut, West Java. All of people call her Dedek. She is soooooooo cute and friendly. She always smile, show her "Gingsul" teeth and it was so sweet. I couldn't hold my self to said that she is so cute directly to her. She is one and only who gave me good impression.



Some people say "don't judge a book from the cover" and that's true. All of my bad impression about that girls was change in my second day in Pare. When I know them, I can say that my first impression to them absolutely wrong. They are kind people, they always care each other and we made much unforgettable moments together.

Aul is spoiled girl, it's becaus she is the last child and all of people in her family give all of attention to her. She often called me "Emak" when I start scolded her because she was home late after met her someone special. But I know she can keep herself. She always clean and use some cream to her face before she sleep. Aul wear glasses but sometimes she didn't wear it and take contact lens. I think she's more beautiful without her glasses. But Aul is not Aul without her glasses.

Rizki is talented girl. She has beautiful voice and she can dance, especially traditional dance. She told me her unfinish love story that made her down in the past but strong in the future (although it's still make her heart broken untill now haha). I remember when she couldn't come to her bestie wedding because she was in Pare. When we were in room, she cried. When we had lunch in Tongkiss, she didn't want to eat and just cry. After we back to room, she cried. I couldn't do anything, so I just kept silent and smile to cheer her up. I'll never forget when you looking for tissue and  cry in Tongkiss Kii hahaha.


Isgi has same age with me but she always call me "mbak" and I don't know why. Maybe she felt that I'm more mature than her or maybe she think my face is older than my age hahaha. Isgi is the oldest child in her family and just have 1 brother, same with me (again). From her story, I know that she has bitter memory about love. Although her heart was broken and she always cried at that time, but she can face it bravely. She is very strong, clever and patient woman. She has amazing father who always accompany her to everywhere. FYI, Isgi can't ride bike or motorcycle because she ever had accident when she was in senior high school and that accident gave her a trauma. Never mind Gi, you must looking for husband and your husband will usher and accompany wherever you go hahay.

Dedek Gisti always cute and friendly. Her accent influence all of people in our room. She is Sundance and she always added "K" when she say something or sing. Like when she sing Jaz's song "oh dari manak, dari matamu" or James Arthur's song "Say you won't let goookk". I always remember dedek when I hear those songs. Dedek and I also have the same idol, Mimi Peri. I remember that time, dedek and I watched Mimi's video in Instagram and we laughed untill we got stomachache. We cried and laughed in one time because of Mimi Peri uakakakakk.

Home isn't a place, it's a feeling. I find new home when I'm with them. I feel comfort although I meet and stay together just 2 weeks with Isgi and dedek, a month with Aul and Rizki.
Aul, Dedek, Isgi, Rizki and me
All of things that they do for me are priceless. I'll always remember all of you as my sisters. Aul and Rizki, I hope you can graduate as soon as possible and come to my hometown to attend my "You Know What" hihi. Isgi, I hope you can finish your last exam and graduate too. And also find your half soul who can make you smile and laugh forever. And don't forget about your promise if I come to Tanjung Pinang with my husband for honeymoon. Dedek, I do hope you can reach your dream to study in you favorite university in Bandung. Whenever you want to visit Madura, just call me. I'll accompany you explore all of Instagramable place hihi.
The last of all, I love you, Guys.
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